Marifer Vergara believes hosting starts long before guests arrive. As the founder of Macondo Forever, a home decor brand offering luxury handwoven table accents made by artisans from Colombia, she believes the table is where meaningful gatherings begin. Her style blends natural textures, relaxed elegance, and practical hosting advice that feels doable in real life.

In this Host How I Host feature, Marifer shares why she always starts with a theme, how a simple charcuterie board can anchor an entire evening, and why doing the prep the day before might be the ultimate party trick. If you love elevated dinner parties that still feel warm and effortless, you are going to want to take notes.

Q: When planning a gathering in your home, where do you start?

A: The theme.

It is a simple answer, but it says everything. Whether it is a seasonal dinner party, a casual girls’ night, or an intimate celebration, starting with a theme gives structure. It informs the table decor, the music, and even the food. For anyone searching for dinner party planning tips or how to host a dinner party at home, this is your first takeaway. Define the feeling first. The rest falls into place.

Q: Favorite ways to break the ice or entertain guests?

A: I love using a beautiful table setting to break the ice. It instantly sets the mood and gets guests talking. Simple food, soft music, and a relaxed, welcoming vibe do the rest.

Q: If you had a limited budget for a small dinner party, what would you focus on for the tablescape?

A: I would focus on a strong base. A beautiful placemat or table runner and candlelight. Simple pieces make the biggest impact.

This is where her background in handwoven decor naturally shines. Texture creates depth. A strong foundation elevates everything placed on top of it.

Q: What makes a great gathering memorable?

A: Thoughtful details, a beautiful table, and guests who feel truly at ease.

Q: If someone feels overwhelmed by hosting friends at home, what would you tell them?

A: Keep it simple. Focus on one beautiful area, plan easy food, and remember guests are there for you, not perfection.

Q: Signature recipe to serve when hosting?

‍A: A simple charcuterie board with good bread, cheese, fruit, and olives. Easy to prep and always a crowd pleaser.

Q: Go-to dinner party soundtrack?

A: Bossa nova, Latin jazz, and mellow lounge music that keeps the mood easy and elegant.

Q: Favorite party trick?

‍A: Do as much as possible the day before so you can actually enjoy your guests.

Q: Most memorable gathering you have hosted or attended?

A: A small dinner at home with close friends. It was simple, relaxed, and full of great conversation. No pressure, just connection.

Q: Your favorite products to use when hosting?

A: I love mixing elevated basics with natural textures. For the table, I use handwoven placemats and accents from Macondo Forever, simple white serveware from Crate & Barrel, glassware from CB2, and linen napkins from Zara Home. Timeless pieces that mix easily always work best.

Q: What do you love about Partytrick?

A: I love how Partytrick makes hosting feel approachable. The tips are practical, realistic, and easy to actually use.

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To see how Marifer brings texture and warmth to the table, follow her on Instagram @macondoforevershop or explore her collection at MacondoForever.com.

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